Sunday, November 1, 2009

what are you looking for in a relationship?

A friend told me on friday night that i'm not going to marry Him, ever. It didn't bother me that much, but i was curious why she thinks so. She said He is not inspiring me, i get too comfortable around him, but isn't it what you are looking for? Daily life is already full of dramas, isn't comfort enough? Isn't it nice that you know you can fall back on something? Is it not enough?

4 comments:

Ling Ooi said...

hey maybe your fren is just being traditional la...sometimes ppl think we're in a relationship with that person we HAVE to marry them...bullshit...you neva know the future!

thx for your comments on my blog...of course i will make souvenirs for everyone haha!

rainbow mushroom said...

sometimes, xi-shui-chang-liu is d hardest to get... but if u get it too soon, u may not appreciate it... just follow ur heart... if there's love, there's every possibility...

venie tee said...

a person holds he's preference well I suppose, I'm kinda agree with you, love d comfy that I'm with him but sometimes I do need d inspiration to keep things moving, it's sometime frustrating and upset me if I get bored around him... Damn

Joshua & Bryant's mummy said...

Hehe, I agree that being comfortable and knowing you can rely on him is enough, but well, some ppl require different things from a guy; maybe that's why yr fren made that comment. If u ask me, I'd say I want comfort, love & security from a guy!